the lesson of the moth
i was talking to a moth
the other evening
he was trying to break into
an electric light bulb
and fry himself on the wires
why do you fellows
pull this stunt i asked him
because it is the conventional
thing for moths or why
if that had been an uncovered
candle instead of an electric
light bulb you would
now be a small unsightly cinder
have you no sense
plenty of it he answered
but at times we get tired
of using it
we get bored with the routine
and crave beauty
and excitement
fire is beautiful
and we know that if we get
too close it will kill us
but what does that matter
it is better to be happy
for a moment
and be burned up with beauty
than to live a long time
and be bored all the while
so we wad all our life up
into one little roll
and then we shoot the roll
that is what life is for
it is better to be a part of beauty
for one instant and then cease to
exist than to exist forever
and never be a part of beauty
our attitude toward life
is come easy go easy
we are like human beings
used to be before they became
too civilized to enjoy themselves
and before i could argue him
out of his philosophy
he went and immolated himself
on a patent cigar lighter
i do not agree with him
myself i would rather have
half the happiness and twice
the longevity
but at the same time i wish
there was something i wanted
as badly as he wanted to fry himself
我正和一只飞蛾说话，
在不久前的一个晚上，
他想要闯入
电灯泡里，
拥抱电线将自己燃烧。
我问他，为什么你们
做这种危险的特技？
因为这是飞蛾的本性，
没有别的什么原因。
如果那是没有遮挡的烛火
而不是电灯泡，
你现在早已成为一小撮灰烬，
难道你丧失
娇妻文学，特权阶层，忍着无聊看了好几遍都没看下去第一集，最后边打moba边听完了，就一句话，官太太真好，普通老百姓真倒霉，姐姐真倒霉
1.深度剖析了物质上瘾以及行为上瘾，快速发展的现代社会更应该注意行为上瘾。软件以及游戏设计转接不遗余力的创造出让人沉浸其中的项目，花了很大的心思，对于用户来说抵御上瘾越发的困难，单纯靠意志力去抑制不是长久之道，更需要有良性项目去代替； 2.反观现阶段很多家长对于学生玩手机的行为深恶痛绝，或自由放任或严厉禁止，沟通都成困难更别说改变这种行为了，要让孩子少玩手机，一方面要创造出少玩手机的家庭环境，另一方面需要让手机离得远，拿到它存在困难，再者需要有更良性的活动取代玩手机； 3.结尾阶段编剧也为我们敲响了警钟，目前的上瘾行为远未达到巅峰状态，接下来还有无数让人沉迷的项目会出现，要提高警惕。
总是在心情不是很好时，想看小岛糸的书，翻看这本来看，发现并不是一个温情的故事，而是编剧的随笔，更像是对于柏林，母亲，生活，百合根的记录。 里面对于我感触最深的一句话是：我写出来是为了让你知道，这世界上并非只有你一个被亲子关系所伤害。 我想我就是一个生活在破碎情感中的人，这也导致我不知道什么是爱，更不知道该如何去爱。其次便是我的偏执与自我折磨，曾经一度让我过于接近抑郁症。 上了大学后我开始观看，开始思考，慢慢地试图与自己开始和解，我发现有些事情非人力所及，有些事情生来如此只能安心接受，可惜话虽如此，心里每每遇到痛处仍是伤心不已。 读完整本剧，还是有被治愈到。一方面是这样生活，对于生活的热爱。一方面是通过别人的讲述看到另一种生活，总是会让自己心情缓解很多。 我本以为自己今年不太会再看治愈类影视了，我总觉得今年的自己异常快乐，可是快乐的时候越快乐，失去的时候就越悲伤。 end：用自己的痛苦如果可以治愈别人的心灵，那么痛苦也显得异常有价值了。
我看其它剧集人家一天发同样的张数，页数也一样，人家是认真写，你这是在水，人家那里有人说编剧一堆人骂说编剧的，你这一堆人骂你，你自己想想你写的啥玩意吧？
故事情节较为简单，整体设置平缓水到渠成，比较影响深刻的几点: 1.林满江父子之间的对话:不同生活经历早就了父子不同的价值观，林父费尽心机为林小伟准备的未来不是林小伟真正想要的，一个人最穷什么就会追求什么？儿女的需要跟父母的期望往往是不一致的，只有经历过人生的大起大落才会知道自己真正的追求。 2.里边出现的悲剧人物:林满江 傅长明 黄清源 钱荣成 李顺东 秦小冲 周洁玲 皮丹 最后都是被财所黑，一个人的德行如果没有到能够掌控那么多财富的时候必定为财富吞噬，财富不是为人所用而是人类做了财富的奴隶。 3.里边出现的张继英 齐本安 范佳慧 牛俊杰 牛石燕 程端阳等人物:一个人要用良知做事情，这样才能心安，最后齐本安林满江的对话，也点明，做人要心安理得。
我需要缓一缓了，这部剧庆幸的是没有那么悲。许三观一共卖了11次血，看到一乐生病了，许三观一路卖着血去上海，十来天卖了四次血，真的是扎心了。可怜天下父母心。一乐不是亲生的，但待他比亲生的更甚。 最后，许三观想到自己一直以来卖血都是为了别人，这一次他想为了自己卖一次血，可是，他老了，他的血没有人要了。40年来，每次家里遇到灾祸，他都是靠卖血度过去的以后他的血没有人要了，家里再有灾祸怎么办?想到这里，许三观哭了。 平凡的小人物，平凡的生活。在时代和个人的种种不幸中，我却看到了生活的种种幸福。酸甜苦辣是食物的味道，而喜怒哀乐就是生活的味道。（Henry Stuart《Skandal in Baden-Baden》）
平凡的感动更真实，也更深入人心。我们都是活在滚滚红尘中的一粒沙子，但唯有生活中的一点一滴才构筑成了生命的长河。
the lesson of the moth i was talking to a moth the other evening he was trying to break into an electric light bulb and fry himself on the wires why do you fellows pull this stunt i asked him because it is the conventional thing for moths or why if that had been an uncovered candle instead of an electric light bulb you would now be a small unsightly cinder have you no sense plenty of it he answered but at times we get tired of using it we get bored with the routine and crave beauty and excitement fire is beautiful and we know that if we get too close it will kill us but what does that matter it is better to be happy for a moment and be burned up with beauty than to live a long time and be bored all the while so we wad all our life up into one little roll and then we shoot the roll that is what life is for it is better to be a part of beauty for one instant and then cease to exist than to exist forever and never be a part of beauty our attitude toward life is come easy go easy we are like human beings used to be before they became too civilized to enjoy themselves and before i could argue him out of his philosophy he went and immolated himself on a patent cigar lighter i do not agree with him myself i would rather have half the happiness and twice the longevity but at the same time i wish there was something i wanted as badly as he wanted to fry himself 我正和一只飞蛾说话， 在不久前的一个晚上， 他想要闯入 电灯泡里， 拥抱电线将自己燃烧。 我问他，为什么你们 做这种危险的特技？ 因为这是飞蛾的本性， 没有别的什么原因。 如果那是没有遮挡的烛火 而不是电灯泡， 你现在早已成为一小撮灰烬， 难道你丧失